Video: How To Talk With Kids About Tragic Events

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STARKVILLE, Miss. (WCBI) – Tragic events happen daily.

From the recent terrorist attacks in Paris, to losing a loved one in a sudden accident.

One of the toughest things is explaining why these things happen to children.

Shortly after the terrorist attacks that killed hundreds in Paris, a french father is making headlines, explaining to his son why the attacks happened.

Young minds pay attention to the world around them and often wonder why?

Cassandra Palmer is a licensed professional counselor in Starkville. She says it’s important for parents to be open and honest with their kids about tragic events.

“They’re probably going to hear about it in some form or fashion, whether it’s at schools or in carpool or wherever, from a friend. So, it’s important for parents to talk to their kids so they make sure they understand, one what their children are hearing and also that they’re getting accurate information,” said Palmer.

Palmer has worked with kids in critical situations. She adds that age and maturity depend on how much information a child should be exposed to.

“The older the child and the more emotionally ready that they are, the more information you would share. And that can vary from child to child. Like in my family, for example, one of my children would probably be more mature and able to handle more information as where another one, maybe not so much, even at the same age, so you have to kind of trust your instincts as a parent,” said Palmer.

Although Palmer says its important to talk with your kids about tragic events, she encourages parents to limit their exposure on social media.

“You know, I’ve had some clients who on my information sheet, we ask if they have witnessed traumatic events and we had a couple that mark ‘yes’ and they indicate those videos they’ve watched, even adults, on facebook can be really scary and have kind of traumatized them. So as parents, we want to protect our kids from that kind of information,” added Palmer.

Palmer says one of the most important things to remember for parents is to reassure your children that they will be okay.

“They look to you for cues, if you’re ok then they’re going to be more ok. You want to provide reassurance,” said Palmer.

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